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Definitions,
Values,
DJ's Rights, 7 Stages,
Alternative Providers,
CINDEA Recognition,
Why use Services?
Expectations,
Web of Facets,
Advantages of a DM,
CINDEA Recognition,
Philosophy in Practice
Final
Affairs,
Advance Directives & Representation/Proxy,
Dementia
History,
Why Consider It,
Basics, Videos,
Physical
Care,
6 Shroud Patterns,
DJ's Remains
By My Own Heart & Hand
Home Funerals, Greening Death, Children & Deathing Rites
Various forms
of
ecological disposition
National
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National
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U.S.A., U.K.,
etc.
for Adults & Children
and Donations
Articles & Updates
&
Definitions,
Values,
DJ's Rights, 7 Stages,
Alternative Providers,
CINDEA Recognition,
Why use Services?
Expectations,
Web of Facets,
Advantages of a DM,
CINDEA Recognition,
Philosophy in Practice
Final
Affairs,
Advance Directives & Representation/Proxy,
Dementia
History,
Why Consider It,
Basics, Videos,
Physical
Care,
6 Shroud Patterns,
DJ's Remains
Various forms
of
ecological disposition
By My Own Heart & Hand
home funerals, Greening Death, Children, and Deathing Rites
National
& Provincial
National
& Provincial
U.S.A., U.K.,
etc.
for
Adults & Children
and Donations
Articles & Updates
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Clarification
of new terms: After
winning the right to continue to use the term
'death midwife' in the lower Supreme Court (CMBC
vs MaryMoon),
it was lost in the appeal (CMBC/AGBC
vs MaryMoon).
Although we are continuing to explore ways to reclaim the
term 'death midwife', we are legally bound (in
BC) to use new terms for the time being. The
terms we are currently using are:
Death
Midwifery Practitioner:
someone who is practicing the philosophy of midwifery
applied to deathcare, through the pan-death continuum.
Pan-death
guide: someone who offers death midwifery
support in a continuum of pre-death (EOL/death
doula role), immediately after death (home funeral
guide role), and funeral/memorial ceremonies (celebrant
role).
For
the most part on this site, 'practitioner of death
midwifery' and 'pan-death guide' will be used
interchangeably. We realize that this
may be a little confusing. However, we felt
it was important to retain the connection to 'death
midwifery' (philosophy), as well as have a term
that describes 'what they do' (approach in practice)
as 'death midwife' did both.
Disclaimer:
Practitioners of death midwifery/pan-death guides
are not conventional midwives (who deal with birthing)
or health professionals, nor are they members
of any of the Colleges of Midwives in Canada
Introduction to the CINDEA
Recognition Process
Alternative
pan-death care roles have only developed recently
in our modern Western world, and are in the pioneering
stage.Therefore,
there is very little training available and no
certification process.There
has also not been any standardization of the requirements
for various roles/facets of pan-death, or even
what they are called.CINDEA's
use of its two new terms (see
above) are restricted to those who provide
direct/'hands on' service to Death Journeyers
and their families throughout the whole of the
pan-death process.In
part, this is to honour the philosophy of midwifery
inherent in pan-deathcare; in part, we wish to
help the public be clear as to the distinctions
between what different service providers are offering.
Some
of the other major alternative facets/roles within
the pan-death process include death doula, thanadoula,
home funeral guide, and funeral celebrant (see
the Emerging
Practitioners section of the Pan-death
Movement page for a description of these and other
roles).A
CINDEA-recognized practitioner of death
midwifery/pan-death guide offers all of these
services
providing a continuum of care for the support
of the Death Journeyer and their families.CINDEA
has chosen to only recommend (here
and on the Resources
in Canada pre-
or post-
death pages) those who have gone through
the CINDEA recognition process and confirmed
that they offer direct support and guidance throughout
the whole of the pan-death process.
We
recognize that, because these alternative facets/roles
are so new within our modern world, those offering
them will have a wide diversity of background
training and/or experience, coming from both formal
and informal situations.This
might include palliative care nursing or homecare,
hospice volunteering, grief counselling, pastoral/spiritual
care, funeral director experience, etc.It
is quite possible that many of these people have
been already providing pan-death care informally
without any designation acknowledging the continuum
of their services.
We
encourage anyone who is committed to supporting
Death Journeyers and their families throughout
the pan-death process to consider if they might
qualify to be a pan-death guide.Please
review the recognition process below for this
role, and contact
us if you wish to consider CINDEA recognition.
CINDEA has a new online training program. Although it is Canadian based, it is open to anyone anywhere we will help find necessary resources in your local area. It includes Home Funerals, Greening Death, Children and Death, and Deathing Rites see Training .
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General
Requirements for a CINDEA-Recognized
Death Midwifery Practitioner/Pan-death Guide
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1.
be prepared to serve the death journeyer
and family throughout the pan-death
process
2. have training and/or experience
with various facets of the 'end of
life' process
3. be a regular supporter of CINDEA
4. apply
directly to CINDEA for recognition
as a pan-death guide
5. complete the questionnaire below
in full
6. provide 3 letters of recommendation
(re related services
in the past)
7. have a criminal record check (CRC)
done through CINDEA (a
letter to get a free CRC will be provided)
8. have their own website (offering
death midwifery, and/or other death-related,
services) or be clearly named
as such on another website (or
other public listing, such as the
Yellow Pages)
9. go through an update of the recognition
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Questionnaire
to become a CINDEA-Recognized
Death Midwifery Practitioner/Pan-death Guide
(contact
us
for a Word copy, plus a letter to obtain a free
Criminal Record Check)
Name:
Age:
Gender identity:
Address:
Phone/email/Skype/etc. contact info:
Website URL. or other public listing, of your
death-related services:
Present vocation or job:
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Training/workshops in EOL/death
care and issues.Please
also clarify |
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the numbers of hours, days,
weeks, etc. of these workshops
or training sessions, and
ii) if they included some
form of final assessment
by the instructors: |
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b. |
Related experience in EOL and/or death
care (as specific as
possible, including amount
months/years or cases
of experience in various forms of related
counseling, hospice volunteering, pastoral
care/chaplaincy, nursing, leading funeral
or memorial services, etc.; apprenticeship
to an existing practitioner of death
midwifery, as well as any actual experience
in helping a family facilitate an EOL/death
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Please
respond to all questions in as much detail
as possible.Feel
free to take your time and consider these
questions in depth
re your answers to CINDEA, and for
your own self-awareness process.
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c. |
Describe
in detail
what you understand a practitioner of
death midwifery to be.How
does that relate to your understanding
of a (birth) midwife? |
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d. |
What events or experiences led you to
consider becoming a pan-death guide,
and why do you want to serve as one? |
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e. |
What are the challenges of each stage
of pan-death?What
stages of pan-death are you most comfortable
or uncomfortable with, and why? |
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An important part of being a pan-death
guide is knowing the limits of your
own skills.Describe
at least 3 situations where you, as
a practitioner of death midwifery, would
refer your clients to a provider of
specialized skills. |
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What are the elements and procedures
of post-death care, if the body does
not go to a funeral home?What
documents and supplies will you need
available? |
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It is normal for anyone to have biases
of some sort, based on their own backgrounds.
What are your biases regarding
any of the personal choices or beliefs
of the death journeyer and their family?Which
of these biases would you be willing
to put aside, if they make a choice
that does not fit with your personal
values?
and why would you be willing to do so? |
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Describe
your own understanding or beliefs about
the after-life and/or soul's journey,
and how you would approach this subject
in caring for the death journeyer. |
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j. |
What experience do you have in
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i)
making conventional funeral arrangements,
and
ii) developing and/or leading
funeral or memorial ceremonies? |
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k. |
How do you care for yourself?What
emotional, spiritual and/or community
support systems do you have?What
emotional or spiritual self-care avenues
or meditative practices do you follow? |
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l. |
Do you perceive any connections between
death midwifery and ecology?If
so, what are they? |
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Upon
completion and acceptance of the recognition process,
a CINDEA-recognized death midwifery symbol
will be available for use for listings on this
and the CINDEA Resources
in Canada pre-
and post-
death pages, as well as the applicant's own website
or business card.
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Recognition
Processing Fees
CINDEA-recognized
practitioner of death midwifery/pan-death
guide |
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$50
for original recognition process |
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