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                                  | The Dark Sky Swaddles Its Secrets
 
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                                  |  | We re moving towards our annual  blessed darkness, the Winter Solstice. This is the time of year to take  advantage of sheer and complete darkness as a healing element. Black is the  most restorative hue for the retina.   If you were to lie down in a darkened room  in Shavasana (Corpse Pose), with cupped hands over your eyes, to dispel any  light entering, the sustained pose would gift your eyes the inner re-set  instructions to re-vision your world again. |  
                                  |                                     Darkness can be seen as a safety  zone where the vulnerable can find the deepest shelter.   Such deep and  transformative security offers a time-field to process and grow without other  eyes watching.                                      
 Yet, we are afraid of the dark.   Our  biggest fears are linked to what we have hidden away from our collective and conscious  selves: pieces of truth that we cannot afford to bring into the light of day for  fear of shattering what the visible world keeps as real and holds as sacred.
 
 When the darkness is welcomed, non-visible  ways of knowing are enhanced.   Seen as a refuge and a guide to those who have  lost their way, the archetypal feminine darkness, The Woman at the Edge of the World, known by various names such as  The Crone, Inanna, Lilith, Kali, Mary Magdalene, and the Black Madonna to name a  few, will work in invisible ways on your behalf.   Her  power holds us and connects us to channels of knowledge,  intuition, and listening to those things we ‘know but don’t know.’   The Winter  Solstice is a time-field when the land...the ethers…and the ancestors…catch our  attention with the sharpness of cold wind and the sound of our footsteps crossing  the night.
 
 Messages conducted through the darkness  supply courage to the traveller alongside the flood of ‘knowing”; the pit in  our stomach, the flutter of our heart, the chill to our bones, and the hair  standing on end, just to name a few of our most effective non-rational mechanisms  of knowing.
 
 In children’s fables, the heroine’s crisis  arrives as an overwhelming labor, a kind of initiation before their next phase  of becoming.   As night falls, the heroine falls into a deep state of sleep.   Through  that envelope of darkness, sleep, and invisibility, help arrives to complete  the task in immaculate fulfilment.
 
 In this pro-darkness context, light does not conquer  darkness; rather, darkness births the light.   It follows that death is not the end  of life, but rather, supports life.   The Woman at the Edge of the World is both a friend and a mother to all those who value Her.
 
 Sister to the winter solstice is the darkness  of the monthly new moon, a visible reminder that we are continually in cycles  of create─and─destroy; create─and─destroy.   Without owning our power to  destroy, the soul’s power to create is semi-paralyzed.
 
 Katherine Freese, American Theoretical  Astrophysicist, is renown for her work in Dark Matter, Dark Stars, and Dark  Energy.   She reports that roughly 85% of all matter in the cosmos is Dark Matter  and explains “we spend so much time examining what we can see ─ its like  standing under a streetlamp looking for our keys in our purse, cause that’s the  only place we can find them.”
 
 I understand her statement to point out that  our egos and rational minds require external validation.   
                                    Yet, the search within one’s inner abyss, is  only between you and Divine Mother.
 
 During this winter solstice, I invite you to  stand before the western horizon line after the sun has set, under the ceiling  of stars and consider:
 
 What are you processing within  the darkly kept Life/Death/Life force?
 
 What is Her force incubating for  you within Her intuition, far-seeing eyes, and deeply listening, loyal heart?
 |  December 15, 2024 Tricia Keith By My Own Heart and Hand teacher  |  
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